I try to be a fixer. Or, maybe I don’t try so much as I can’t get out of my own way sometimes.
I don’t think I’m particularly good at fixing things, by the way. It isn’t really a strength of mine. But that is where I often find myself.
That’s at least part of why this website exists right?
I am not the type of person that you should call if you just want someone to listen and commiserate with you. I know that often (usually?) that is the best thing to do for someone, just listen. But that isn’t how I’m wired.
When a problem is in front of me, my brain just zeroes in on any possible solution.